Most men would not have been able to get beyond being hurt and humiliated, even if their girlfriend had apologized repeatedly.
Most men would especially NOT be able to get beyond the very public aspect of Kristen’s cheating. It’s been hard enough for even the most understanding men to cope with private betrayal.
But you Rob had to face the world, millions of people who saw the photos of Kristen kissing her Snow White And The Huntsman director Rupert Sanders. Your girlfriend’s cheating was splashed on websites and magazines covers around the globe.
Cheated-on Rob Had To Face the Press
Then when you had to take on a publicity tour for your David Cronenberg film, Cosmopolis, you had to face media questioning and ribbing about the embarassing situation.
John Stewart pulled out two tubs of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream on The Daily Show to commiserate with you. George Stephanopoulos offered Cinnamon Toast Crunch on Good Morning America.
Through all of that, you kept smiling and joking and pulled off a totally professional appearance. You NEVER dissed Kristen once. Never spoke her name or shared your hurt or anger. You were a class act.
But what’s even classier and demonstrates the depth of your character is the deep love that you’re showing Kristen in new photographs of the two of you at her new house.
Rob — the pics were taken without your knowledge by a paparazzo, but they clearly demonstrate that the charges that you and Kristen are merely faking your relationship now for Breaking Dawn Part 2 promotion — are false.
Rob’s Actions Speak Louder Than Words
No, these pictures reveal you looking warmly and lovingly at Kristen Stewart. You have your arms wrapped around each other. Kristen is touching your face and your shoulders. Rob, you’re smiling at Kristen and looking at her with concern as you listen to her speaking.
Rob, you’re really leaning in and looking directly into Kristen’s eyes, and she is doing the same.
It is absolutely obvious that you have fully forgiven Kristen and have whole heartedly moved forward in your relationship with her.
Rob’s “smile is absolutely genuine. Even though his mouth is closed, he’s really happy to see Kristen. The comfort in the hug…is really genuine,” points out body language expert Patti Wood, the author of SNAP – Making The Most of First Impressions, Body Language and Charisma. “The kiss isn’t a super-sexy kiss, but it’s tension-free. He’s showing that he’s not holding anything against her, and he’s happy to see her.”
Rob — you are a VERY mature man. You have accepted that Kristen deeply regrets her cheating and that she does truly love you. You must realize that everyone can make a big mistake, but that one big mistake doesn’t have to derail love that is based on mutual interests, goals and values.
Rob Listens To His Own Heart, Not Opinions of Others
You must have accepted that Kristen learned from her mistake, realized how much she valued you and your relationship together, and you are willing to move forward.
You also have been willing to ignore the opinions of your friends and family and have made your own decision about Kristen. That also demonstrates that you are your OWN man, who is not influenced by others.
Rob — there’s only one thing to say — you’re impressive! Kristen is lucky to have you — and she knows that!
Forgiveness is very powerful action. By exercising forgiveness, you have proven that you are the ultimate true man! What do YOU think, HollywoodLifers? Do you agree?
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