EXCLUSIVE! Jon Gosselin’s Ex-GF Hailey Glassman Tells Us: ‘Jon Is Mentally ILL’ And Thinks His Older Daughter Mady Gets A Bad Rap!

BFFs, we got a chance to sit down with one of Jon’s ex-girlfriends! The 23-year-old tells HollywoodLife.com that Jon spent their entire relationship lying and stealing her money!

HollywoodLife.com was there when Jon Gosselin’s ex-girlfriend Hailey Glassman stepped into a strip club for the first time, July 29, to do some interviews, at NYC’s Sapphire Gentlemen’s Club. We wanted to get the inside scoop on what really went down between Hailey and Jon in their short-lived relationship, and she totally dished!

“Jon was just compulsively lying … constantly,” says Hailey. “He took a lot of money from me. He hurt me, and he hurt my family, which is the worst of it. I think he played the victim for so long and people were shocked when they found out Jon was the villain.”

Hailey is referring to October of 2009, when Jon was ordered by a PA judge to return $180,000 he had taken from the joint bank account he shared with his ex-wife Kate Gosselin. Since Jon spent all of his money, Hailey allowed Jon to borrow $200,000 in order to pay Kate. Hailey claims Jon hasn’t paid her back any of her generous loan.

Hailey went on to say that she thinks there’s something very wrong with Jon.

“People always say, ‘Do you hate him’? But I don’t hate him, because how can you hate someone who is mentally ill? Do you know what I mean?”

Ouch! But Hailey does definitely miss one thing about Jon: his oldest daugher Mady, 9.

“I miss Mady, I really care about Mady. My mom misses Mady!” says Hailey. “If I could tell people one thing it would be to not be so judgey with Mady. People are so quick to say she’s rude and mean. She’s a kid, give her a break, she marches to the beat of her own drum. Mady says how she feels, and she’s not quiet like the rest. Don’t pick on her, people should be nicer to her.

Even though Hailey and Jon aren’t on speaking terms, the former Gosselin flame wishes Jon nothing but the best.

“I want Jon to do well for his children,” says Hailey. “I want him to make money for his kids. I don’t hold grudges.”